To feel much for others and little for ourselves; to restrain our selfishness and exercise our benevolent affections, constitute the perfection of human nature.Adam Smith
False happiness renders men stern and proud, and that happiness is never communicated. True happiness renders them kind and sensible, and that happiness is always shared.Montesquieu
The correlative to loving our neighbors as ourselves is hating ourselves as we hate our neighbors.Francis Bacon
The thirst for powerful sensations takes the upper hand both over fear and over compassion for the grief of others.Anton Chekhov
A good upbringing means not that you won't spill sauce on the tablecloth, but that you won't notice it when someone else does.Anton Chekhov