What is deservedly suffered must be borne with calmness, but when the pain is unmerited, the grief is resistless.Ovid
All good books have one thing in common - they are truer than if they had really happened.Ernest Hemingway
It's that wonderful old-fashioned idea that others come first and you come second. This was the whole ethic by which I was brought up. Others matter more than you do, so 'don't fuss, dear; get on with it.'Audrey Hepburn