#2There are perhaps no days of our childhood we lived so fully as those we spent with a favorite book.Marcel Proust
#4A fashionable milieu is one in which everybody's opinion is made up of the opinion of all the others. Has everybody a different opinion? Then it is a literary milieu.Marcel Proust
#5Words do not change their meanings so drastically in the course of centuries as, in our minds, names do in the course of a year or two.Marcel Proust
#6Lies are essential to humanity. They are perhaps as important as the pursuit of pleasure and moreover are dictated by that pursuit.Marcel Proust
#8Happiness is beneficial for the body, but it is grief that develops the powers of the mind.Marcel Proust
#10Everything great in the world comes from neurotics. They alone have founded our religions and composed our masterpieces.Marcel Proust
#11The only real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.Marcel Proust
#12What a profound significance small things assume when the woman we love conceals them from us.Marcel Proust
#13There is no man, however wise, who has not at some period of his youth said things, or lived in a way the consciousness of which is so unpleasant to him in later life that he would gladly, if he could, expunge it from his memory.Marcel Proust
#14The paradoxes of today are the prejudices of tomorrow, since the most benighted and the most deplorable prejudices have had their moment of novelty when fashion lent them its fragile grace.Marcel Proust
#15Habit is a second nature which prevents us from knowing the first, of which it has neither the cruelties nor the enchantments.Marcel Proust
#16People can have many different kinds of pleasure. The real one is that for which they will forsake the others.Marcel Proust
#17We don't receive wisdom; we must discover it for ourselves after a journey that no one can take for us or spare us.Marcel Proust
#19As long as men are free to ask what they must, free to say what they think, free to think what they will, freedom can never be lost and science can never regress.Marcel Proust
#24Our intonations contain our philosophy of life, what each of us is constantly telling himself about things.Marcel Proust
#25Like everybody who is not in love, he thought one chose the person to be loved after endless deliberations and on the basis of particular qualities or advantages.Marcel Proust
#27Every reader finds himself. The writer's work is merely a kind of optical instrument that makes it possible for the reader to discern what, without this book, he would perhaps never have seen in himself.Marcel Proust
#28The charms of the passing woman are generally in direct proportion to the swiftness of her passing.Marcel Proust
#29If a little dreaming is dangerous, the cure for it is not to dream less but to dream more, to dream all the time.Marcel Proust
#31The time at our disposal each day is elastic; the passions we feel dilate it, those that inspire us shrink it, and habit fills it.Marcel Proust
#35It is in moments of illness that we are compelled to recognize that we live not alone but chained to a creature of a different kingdom, whole worlds apart, who has no knowledge of us and by whom it is impossible to make ourselves understood: our body.Marcel Proust
#36The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes.Marcel Proust
#37We are able to find everything in our memory, which is like a dispensary or chemical laboratory in which chance steers our hand sometimes to a soothing drug and sometimes to a dangerous poison.Marcel Proust
#38Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.Marcel Proust
#39Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.Marcel Proust
#40Illness is the doctor to whom we pay most heed; to kindness, to knowledge, we make promise only; pain we obey.Marcel Proust
#41In a separation it is the one who is not really in love who says the more tender things.Marcel Proust
#44Three-quarters of the sicknesses of intelligent people come from their intelligence. They need at least a doctor who can understand this sickness.Marcel Proust
#45Those whose suffering is due to love are, as we say of certain invalids, their own physicians.Marcel Proust
#46Time passes, and little by little everything that we have spoken in falsehood becomes true.Marcel Proust
#47In theory one is aware that the earth revolves, but in practice one does not perceive it, the ground upon which one treads seems not to move, and one can live undisturbed. So it is with Time in one's life.Marcel Proust
#49A woman one loves rarely suffices for all our needs, so we deceive her with another whom we do not love.Marcel Proust
#50Your soul is a dark forest. But the trees are of a particular species, they are genealogical trees.Marcel Proust
#51We do not succeed in changing things according to our desire, but gradually our desire changes.Marcel Proust
#52The world was not created once and for all time for each of us individually. There are added to it in the course of our life things of which we have never had any suspicion.Marcel Proust
#53It is not because other people are dead that our affection for them grows faint, it is because we ourselves are dying.Marcel Proust
#55No exile at the South Pole or on the summit of Mont Blanc separates us more effectively from others than the practice of a hidden vice.Marcel Proust
#57Romantic love is mental illness. But it's a pleasurable one. It's a drug. It distorts reality, and that's the point of it. It would be impossible to fall in love with someone that you really saw.Fran Lebowitz
#63There is no such thing as inner peace. There is only nervousness or death. Any attempt to prove otherwise constitutes unacceptable behavior.Fran Lebowitz
#64I must take issue with the term 'a mere child', for it has been my invariable experience that the company of a mere child is infinitely preferable to that of a mere adult.Fran Lebowitz
#66Vegetables are interesting but lack a sense of purpose when unaccompanied by a good cut of meat.Fran Lebowitz
#67Even when freshly washed and relieved of all obvious confections, children tend to be sticky.Fran Lebowitz
#68In the Soviet Union, capitalism triumphed over communism. In this country, capitalism triumphed over democracy.Fran Lebowitz
#70As a teenager you are at the last stage in your life when you will be happy to hear that the phone is for you.Fran Lebowitz
#71Original thought is like original sin: both happened before you were born to people you could not have possibly met.Fran Lebowitz
#72Never relinquish clothing to a hotel valet without first specifically telling him that you want it back.Fran Lebowitz
#73To put it rather bluntly, I am not the type who wants to go back to the land; I am the type who wants to go back to the hotel.Fran Lebowitz
#74Remember that as a teenager you are in the last stage of your life when you will be happy to hear the phone is for you.Fran Lebowitz
#75When you leave New York, you are astonished at how clean the rest of the world is. Clean is not enough.Fran Lebowitz
#76Do not, on a rainy day, ask your child what he feels like doing, because I assure you that what he feels like doing, you won't feel like watching.Fran Lebowitz
#77The conversational overachiever is someone whose grasp exceeds his reach. This is possible but not attractive.Fran Lebowitz
#78All God's children are not beautiful. Most of God's children are, in fact, barely presentable.Fran Lebowitz
#79Children are the most desirable opponents at scrabble as they are both easy to beat and fun to cheat.Fran Lebowitz
#80Radio news is bearable. This is due to the fact that while the news is being broadcast, the disk jockey is not allowed to talk.Fran Lebowitz
#81I've done the calculation and your chances of winning the lottery are identical whether you play or not.Fran Lebowitz
#83I never took hallucinogenic drugs because I never wanted my consciousness expanded one unnecessary iota.Fran Lebowitz
#84Scientists - the crowd that for dash and style make the general public look like the Bloomsbury set.Fran Lebowitz
#88Nature is by and large to be found out of doors, a location where, it cannot be argued, there are never enough comfortable chairs.Fran Lebowitz
#89I never met anyone who didn't have a very smart child. What happens to these children, you wonder, when they reach adulthood?Fran Lebowitz
#90Designer clothes worn by children are like snowsuits worn by adults. Few can carry it off successfully.Fran Lebowitz
#91Stand firm in your refusal to remain conscious during algebra. In real life, I assure you, there is no such thing as algebra.Fran Lebowitz
#93I place a high moral value on the way people behave. I find it repellent to have a lot, and to behave with anything other than courtesy in the old sense of the word - politeness of the heart, a gentleness of the spirit.Fran Lebowitz
#94If you are of the opinion that the contemplation of suicide is sufficient evidence of a poetic nature, do not forget that actions speak louder than words.Fran Lebowitz
#95No animal should ever jump up on the dining-room furniture unless absolutely certain that he can hold his own in the conversation.Fran Lebowitz
#96Being a woman is of special interest only to aspiring male transsexuals. To actual women, it is simply a good excuse not to play football.Fran Lebowitz
#97You can't go around hoping that most people have sterling moral characters. The most you can hope for is that people will pretend that they do.Fran Lebowitz
#99If you are truly serious abut preparing your child for the future, don't teach him to subtract teach him to deduct.Fran Lebowitz