I love the man that can smile in trouble, that can gather strength from distress, and grow brave by reflection. 'Tis the business of little minds to shrink, but he whose heart is firm, and whose conscience approves his conduct, will pursue his principles unto death.Thomas Paine
Sarcasm: the last refuge of modest and chaste-souled people when the privacy of their soul is coarsely and intrusively invaded.Fyodor Dostoevsky
A good upbringing means not that you won't spill sauce on the tablecloth, but that you won't notice it when someone else does.Anton Chekhov
Dress is at all times a frivolous distinction, and excessive solicitude about it often destroys its own aim.Jane Austen
A single woman with a very narrow income must be a ridiculous, disagreeable old maid - the proper sport of boys and girls; but a single woman of good fortune is always respectable, and may be as sensible and pleasant as anybody else.Jane Austen